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Before Your First Time

Prepare, ask the right questions, and feel ready.

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Before You Go

Questions to ask your partner

Before you sleep with someone new

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How to bring up STI status

Timing, scripts, what to say

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Protection checklist

What to have ready before the night

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What to Expect

The physical reality

Honest, calm, no pressure

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The emotional aftermath

All the feelings are normal

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Aftercare & check-ins

Taking care of each other after

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One Night Only

Party prep guide

If tonight might be the night

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One-night stand safety

Protection, location, gut instinct

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Morning after — what to do

Testing, EC, emotional check-in

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📚 New guides are published here every week — each one grounded in guidance from bodies like the WHO and CDC, with sources listed at the end. Titles marked “coming soon” are on the schedule.

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